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What the Animals Taught Adam: from the Story Powerline
Tuesday, August 30, 2022 by Becky Cerling Powers

Categories: Story Powerline

Adam and EveWhen God was getting the Garden Eden ready to share life in the same space with humans, why did He wait around so long to create Eve?

What God said was good

When God separated the seas from the land, He declared it good. When He caused the land to produce plants and fruit-bearing trees, He saw that it was good. When He placed the sun and moon in the sky to govern the day and the night, He found it good.

When He filled the skies with winged creatures and the seas with teeming life, again, He declared it good. When He created livestock, wild animals, and creeping creatures to fill the land, once more, He found it good.

What God said was not good.

And yet, when God created the first earthling, Adam, honoring the man by creating him in His own image and placing him in a beautiful garden, for the first time, God declared that something in His new creation was not good.

“It is not good for the man to be alone,” He said. “I will make a helper suitable for him.”

After that jarring statement, anyone would expect God to get busy creating Eve. But He delayed. Instead, He gave Adam the job of naming all the animals.

Why wait to meet the need?

I believe that God is like the father of my – I realize now – incredibly fortunate childhood.

Or more accurately, my father was like God in the sense that Dad saw what his children needed in the future, and then prepared us by working alongside us and building a relationship with us through shared chores and other activities, patiently helping us to develop the skills and character traits we would need for adult life.

God encouraged Adam to explore, observe, and reason

To name someone in the ancient culture of Bible times meant saying something true about their character or nature. God could have taught Adam about the animals and directed him to what to notice and think. That is usually the way our culture teaches children about animals in school.

But God didn’t do that. Instead, He let Adam explore, observe, and figure things out for himself. So Adam observed the animals closely to give them meaningful names—descriptive names like anteater, woodpecker, and grasshopper.

As Adam explored, observed, and thought about what he observed, Adam began to realize something else—something important—something that God also let him figure out for himself.

Adam realized that all the other creatures had a mate

He saw that God created earth’s creatures as male and female, and that when the male and the female united, they produced offspring.

So Adam used the wonderful brain God gave him to think about that. First, Adam put his observations into words, then he interpreted what he noticed, and finally, he reasoned that there must be a mate for him as well. So, as he continued his God-given project of naming the animals, he began searching for his own mate, the one created just right for him.

Adam and Eve: God prepared Adam for relationship and intimacy

When God gave Adam the job of naming the animals, He didn’t tell Adam that He was preparing Adam for his future mate – that becoming a good observer, a good communicator and a good thinker would help him to become a good mate.

Walking with God in the garden every evening, relating his thoughts and confiding his hopes to his creator also helped prepare Adam for relationship – for the comforts and responsibilities of intimacy with his future wife.

The gift of loneliness

God allowed Adam to try to solve the mate problem for himself. Adam searched and searched, but he found no creature suitable to share his life intimately. So, Adam experienced loneliness. His lonely feelings helped him recognize his own need—another kind of preparation for the challenges of an intimate relationship.

Finally, God caused Adam to fall into a deep sleep. While Adam slept, God took part of Adam’s side and closed the wound with flesh. Then, the LORD God fashioned a woman from Adam’s side and brought her to Adam.

Waking to intimate love

After that, Adam’s hours and days of language development training – from naming the animals – paid off. Adam reacted with poetry, the language of romance:

            “Now this! THIS is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh!

            She shall be called “woman,” for she was taken out of man.”

We have needs and longings, too.

When God answers our prayers, sometimes He says “Yes,” sometimes He says “No” and sometimes He says “Wait.” When God says “Wait,” it may be because we are not yet ready for the responsibilities that go with the gift we long for.

Today’s prayer

Lord, help me cooperate with You when You determine that I need to wait before You give me the desire of my heart. May I get with the program and learn the observation, communication, and other skills I need to properly care for the gifts You want to give me. Amen.

© Becky Cerling Powers 1995, updated 2021

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John Neibergall From New Brighton, MN At 8/30/2022 8:33:27 AM

Remarkable insights, wonderfully discerning, beautifully written. Thanks for sharing, Becky—JN

Reply by: Becky Cerling Powers

Thank you, John! So good to hear from you. Sometime I want to get your near drowning childhood story, and your take on it, to use as a family story.

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